Showing posts with label Pauline Gaines. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pauline Gaines. Show all posts

"The most valuable lesson I've learned post-divorce is that there are really only two good choices for handling relationship problems: accept the situation and work on your part, or acknowledge that the situation is untenable and remove yourself from it. Criticizing doesn't invite cooperation or solve problems; it just creates more conflict and ill will." - Pauline Gaines

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"The most valuable lesson I've learned post-divorce is that there are really only two good choices for handling relationship problems: accept the situation and work on your part, or acknowledge that the situation is untenable and remove yourself from it. Criticizing doesn't invite cooperation or solve problems; it just creates more conflict and ill will." - +Pauline Gaines
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"Long-term happiness comes from self-agency." - Pauline Gaines

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"Long-term happiness comes from self-agency." - +Pauline Gaines
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"When one spouse has a primary attachment to someone that is stronger than the attachment to his partner -- be it a lover, a parent, or a child -- the marriage is in trouble." - Pauline Gaines

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"When one spouse has a primary attachment to someone that is stronger than the attachment to his partner -- be it a lover, a parent, or a child -- the marriage is in trouble." - +Pauline Gaines
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